Tuesday, April 23, 2013

p.o.l.i.g.a.m.i

"..... Marry of the women that please you : two or three or four. But if you feel that you shall not be able to deal justly, then only one or what your right hand possesses. That would be more suitable to prevent you from doing injustice."   (Qur'an 4:3)


tahu kah anda ......... When and already married man marries a new wife, he is allowed by law an acquaintance period with his new wife of seven consecutive days if she is a virgin and three days if she has been married previously. He does this without making up the time for the remaining wife or wives. This law is based on the Sahabi, Anas Radi-Allahu 'Anhu


saya suka ......... "A man ought to be considerate of his first wife because through marriage to her he has satisfied one of the most basic human needs. And, although the desire behind marrying another wife is similar to the desires which led to marrying the first one, there is one major difference. That difference lies in the fact that it was necessary to marry the first in order to fulfill those desires and once these needs have been satisfied they are no longer necessities." ..... page 95


kesimpulan ......... polygmy is not easy and well, sharing is not always caring ;-)

10 comments:

  1. napa ang sibul dgn poligami. hasni nak tambah lagi 1 ke? hihihihi

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    1. oh tidak ...hanya menambah ilmu di dada :-)

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  2. mala, saya tak membantah poligami, heee...

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    1. alhamdulillah anim. good for you :-)

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  3. ada kebaikkannya......tapi kena betul2 ikut sunnah.....kalau tidak habis punah ranah he heee.....

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  4. Hi Mala, interesting posting. Saya ada satu pun da lintang pukang, kelam kabote!
    Kasut boleh buka dua kedai, handbags lagi.....baju2 satu wardrobe pun ta'chukup, bila buka kena pakai crash helmet, ha ha ha.
    Imagine kalau ada dua ke tiga isteri? Habis cherita! Empat? Masuk goal....heart attack, hospital ICU!
    Then hari2 kena sing that Connie Francis song, 'Never on Sunday', ha ha ha.
    Have a nice day, keep a song in your heart.
    Lee.

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    1. hi uncle lee ....
      susah mau maintain la more than 1 branches kan? hehehe

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  5. Aslmkum Mala
    betul tu...bukan mudah nak pasang 2....
    re; Mala tanya ttg harga periuk tanah tanjine itukan ? harga tu tak tahu sbb sy mkn kat restoren.

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    1. wasalam mamasya ..
      hehehe mana tau kot-kot ada shopping sebijik dua tahine kat sana :-)

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