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"..... Marry of the women that please you : two or three or four. But if you feel that you shall not be able to deal justly, then only one or what your right hand possesses. That would be more suitable to prevent you from doing injustice."   (Qur'an 4:3)

tahu kah anda ......... When and already married man marries a new wife, he is allowed by law an acquaintance period with his new wife of seven consecutive days if she is a virgin and three days if she has been married previously. He does this without making up the time for the remaining wife or wives. This law is based on the Sahabi, Anas Radi-Allahu 'Anhu

saya suka ......... "A man ought to be considerate of his first wife because through marriage to her he has satisfied one of the most basic human needs. And, although the desire behind marrying another wife is similar to the desires which led to marrying the first one, there is one major difference. That difference lies in the fact that it was necessary to marry the first in order to fulfill those desires and once these needs have been satisfied they are no longer necessities." ..... page 95

kesimpulan ......... polygmy is not easy and well, sharing is not always caring ;-)